One Side – A #1000Speak Forgiveness post.

Her eyes dart away, and her legs shake. She walks past him, slouched on the sofa. She looks away again, doesn’t look in his eyes.

He grabs her wrist, and looks up. “Please, Shelley, I didn’t mean it. I’m so, so sorry. Forgive me, please.”

His voice tails off, his head bows. “Please.” A whisper.

She doesn’t look at him. She can’t. If he sees the tears in her eyes, if he cries too, she won’t be able to do what she needs to do. And she would never forgive herself for that.

Her bag is on the carpet, just a few steps away, right by the door.

Forgive me. Forgive me.

She has heard those words before. She has heard those words so many times before.

She thought she had forgiven him. She thought saying, “It’s okay,” was forgiveness. Saying, “I love you.”

She thought staying was forgiveness. She thought what they had was love. A hurting, piercing love, a familiar love.

The beer bottle sits on the coffee table, broken. Beer drips onto the carpet.

Blood drips

Forgive me

Forgive me


I am sorry

So sorry

So       so


Love doesn’t make excuses. Love doesn’t hurt. Love knows.

So does she.


“I’ve tried, Shelley. I’ve tried so hard.”

“I know you have.” She stands by the sofa arm, still not looking at him; looking at the beer bottle, the window, the carpet, the ceiling. “I know you didn’t mean to. I know. That’s the trouble. You never mean to.”

“I’ll try harder.” He buries his head in his hands. “I don’t know why – I don’t know what came over me. What comes over me. It’s the last thing I want to do.”


She sees him, sitting on the sofa, and she remembers. She remembers his memories, squeezed out with a cuddle, poured out with the beer.

She sees him, a small boy watching his parents scream, watching his father beat his mother. She sees him, a small boy running away, hiding under the bed.

She feels his guilt, his small boy guilt, as he falls asleep among the dust to the sound of his mother’s screams.

I am a big boy. I should know better. She needs me, needs her boy to help her. I am a coward, a big girl’s blouse.

But still he dare not move.


She sees him, and she feels his hurt; she hears his pain. She sees him at the kitchen table, eating cornflakes for dinner while his parents laugh and drink cider in the other room. She feels the lump in his throat that makes it hard to swallow, the mist in his eyes that makes it hard to see, the thudding of his heart that makes it hard to hear.

And she knows. She knows that for the boy he used to be, for the boy who is still inside him, she must pick up the bag, and walk through the door.

“I’m sorry too,” she says. “I didn’t mean to either. We never do.”

“I forgive you,” she whispers, and closes the door behind her. “I forgive me too.”


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  1. Wonderful, wonderful post. Isn’t it ironic that sometimes the only thing we can do for people we love, or have loved, is to leave them and mean it?

  2. Yvonne. Such a perfect perfect story for all of the emotions behind forgiveness, why we seek it, why we give it. The little boy in the room alone eating Corn Flakes. Oh that, so big huge hurt. I’m so glad you wrote this.

    1. Author

      Thanks Kristi. To be honest this story pretty much wrote itself. I had no idea how it would turn out when I started, and was totally surprised by the little boy eating his corn flakes popping into my mind, but the image summed up so much that I wanted to convey.

  3. Wow. That little boy, hiding under the bed. That couple who can’t be together. The cycles that keep repeating themselves, over and over again without fail.
    So beautiful. Sosad.

  4. I took a long time to visit your post, didn’t I, Yvonne?! I’m so glad I finally read it. It’s so poignant. My heart goes out to the little boy but also to the woman who had to make such a difficult choice!

    1. Author

      Well, it’s good to see you here whenever you make it Roshni! Isn’t it strange how we can feel so much for characters that don’t exist at all? I guess it’s because even though these don’t exist, so many people do go through similar circumstances.
      Thanks for coming by and for your comment.

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